Yoko Ono - Part 2
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Yoko Ono - Part 2

Here we are! Part 2 of our episode dedicated to Yoko Ono's retrospective exhibition at Tate Modern, Music of the Mind. We cannot believe we managed to talk about the exhibition but... we used our imagination, and so will you. Follow us virtually in this exploration of Ono's life and work, and, more importantly, her exhibition. We focus on the highlights (for us) as it would be near impossible to talk about everything. There are so many delightful details and pieces that will speak to everyone differently. To find out more about it, go to: https://www.tate.org.uk/whats-on/tate-modern/yoko-ono @yokoono Music: Sarturn. @exhibitionistas_podcast

[00:00:00] This is the second part of our two-part episode dedicated to Yoko Ono's retrospective exhibition

[00:00:17] at Tate Modern, Music of the Mind.

[00:00:21] The exhibition was curated by Juliette Bingham and Patricia Dander.

[00:00:26] It is a co-production of two institutions, Tate Modern and Kunstsamlung Nordrhein-Westfalen.

[00:00:32] It is open until the 1st of September, so run!

[00:00:36] Go there, go there often if you can.

[00:00:39] Just a heads up, content warning.

[00:00:42] We do briefly mention suicide, so if this is something you'd rather skip, just do

[00:00:49] it.

[00:00:50] There are other episodes out there for you.

[00:00:51] We are recording a brand new one in a few days.

[00:00:56] So I will not keep you waiting any longer.

[00:00:58] This is a packed episode with seemingly impossible chess games and butts, lots and lots of butts.

[00:01:06] Enjoy the episode.

[00:01:15] Hello and welcome back to Exhibitionistas, the podcast where we explore the work of

[00:01:20] an artist through their solo exhibition.

[00:01:23] This week is part two of the Music of the Mind exhibition at the Tate Modern with work by

[00:01:28] the incomparable Yoko Ono.

[00:01:32] When we left you last time, it was 1962 and Ono was hosting avant-garde event gatherings

[00:01:38] in the loft on Chamber Street, New York.

[00:01:41] She was chucking jello at the wall.

[00:01:43] She was almost burning the place down after she lit the paper on fire.

[00:01:49] She was there with the likes of Jasper Johns, Robert Rauschenberg, John Cage, David Tudor,

[00:01:54] Terry Riley and Lamont Young.

[00:01:56] It was just a who's-who of the art world in the 60s that were all coming to her loft

[00:02:03] and experimenting with avant-garde art.

[00:02:07] I have to say, I just read in the catalogue that Marcel Duchamp was there as well.

[00:02:14] Yes, I saw that too.

[00:02:16] It's quite a thing.

[00:02:19] Absolutely huge.

[00:02:20] She had also rebelled against her parents and married a Japanese composer Toshi Ichinagi

[00:02:28] with whom she had a creative partnership as well as a romantic partnership.

[00:02:33] That was kind of coming to the end at the end of our last episode.

[00:02:36] They were drifting apart.

[00:02:39] We had also just stepped into our exhibition at the Tate where we saw her wishing trees

[00:02:44] and discussed how they might speak to one's higher mind as they entered the exhibition.

[00:02:49] We watched her burn a match on film to a soundtrack of inaudible music ever challenging,

[00:02:55] right from the start.

[00:02:57] So this week we'll take you through her artistic inspiration in the 60s and 70s

[00:03:02] and through some of the highlights of the exhibition.

[00:03:05] It's way too massive to talk about in full, but fear not.

[00:03:08] Those are the weeks in London.

[00:03:10] You'll have a chance to see it at the Tate until it closes on the 1st of September.

[00:03:14] I know that I will be going back for sure.

[00:03:18] And those of you who are new to the podcast, welcome.

[00:03:21] It's such a thrill to see more and more of you listening in.

[00:03:24] I cannot tell you the joy it brings us to see more of you coming along.

[00:03:29] And thank you for all of those who've been spending your time with us this far.

[00:03:33] As you might know, I'm Emily Harding.

[00:03:36] I'm an art lover and an exhibition goer and a co-host of this podcast.

[00:03:41] And I am Joanna Pirnevis, your co-host.

[00:03:44] I am an independent curator and writer.

[00:03:47] And I'm delighted to continue with part two of this outstanding artist

[00:03:51] who is finally getting her due with this retrospective exhibition.

[00:03:57] Her life is so tumultuous, so rich that, of course, I was bound to get something wrong.

[00:04:03] I mentioned in the last episode that a former assistant of hers, Ann-John Lennon,

[00:04:10] had just released a documentary.

[00:04:12] Indeed, it is called The Lost Weekend, A Love Story.

[00:04:16] And I misnamed her as Amy Pank.

[00:04:19] A correct name is Mae Pank.

[00:04:21] So the documentary, if you're interested, is available on Prime, YouTube and Apple TV, by the way.

[00:04:27] And the other documentary I mentioned, and that you can watch at your own risk of extreme boredom,

[00:04:35] is called Murder Without a Trial on Apple TV about John Lennon's assassination.

[00:04:41] Resounding endorsement there, Joanna.

[00:04:45] That was... I'm sure that everyone's gonna rush off to Apple TV and watch this last one.

[00:04:50] Do you ever just like to have TV on in the background when you sort of fall asleep,

[00:04:55] maybe, for a Saturday nap on the sofa?

[00:04:57] This could be good.

[00:04:59] This could be choice-dealing for that.

[00:05:03] Yeah, this is good for insomnia.

[00:05:04] Yeah, indeed.

[00:05:07] So shall we start?

[00:05:09] Because we have a lot of stuff to cover.

[00:05:12] So going back a little before 1962, to mention very briefly the fluxus movement.

[00:05:18] When George Massunas was setting his own art space and someone told her about it,

[00:05:23] saying that he was copying her, he invited her to do a show in his gallery,

[00:05:28] where she installed her instruction paintings.

[00:05:31] One of them, Painting to be Stepped On, which is also in the Tate exhibition,

[00:05:35] was one of the features.

[00:05:37] So the instruction paintings are really interesting because they kind of celebrate,

[00:05:42] in some ways, a very traditional form of art making.

[00:05:45] And at the same time, it completely breaks down this tradition,

[00:05:49] particularly painting to be stepped on.

[00:05:52] She remembers Noguchi, who's this really important Japanese artist,

[00:05:58] stepping on them in these very traditional, nice slippers, she calls them.

[00:06:06] And lots of people stepped on that painting.

[00:06:08] And I wondered in the exhibition, so the painting...

[00:06:10] There's a lot of those paintings, these instruction paintings,

[00:06:14] in the second room.

[00:06:16] And I wondered, is this the original one where all these people she worked with

[00:06:22] stepped on them?

[00:06:23] Because, I mean, it looked like...

[00:06:24] I mean, it's definitely seen better days.

[00:06:26] But even still, I could not bring myself to step on it,

[00:06:30] which is silly because that's actually the instruction, of course.

[00:06:34] And this is one...

[00:06:35] You didn't?

[00:06:36] I know, I didn't.

[00:06:37] It's just one of the reasons I need to go again.

[00:06:39] I so did.

[00:06:40] As you should.

[00:06:42] But I read something interesting about this piece in the New Yorker article

[00:06:45] by Louis Menand in...

[00:06:48] It was written in 2022 and he writes,

[00:06:50] painting to be stepped on resonates in two traditions.

[00:06:53] It alludes to the widely known photographs published in the late 1940s

[00:06:58] in life and elsewhere of Jackson Pollock making his drip paintings

[00:07:02] by moving around the canvas spread on the floor.

[00:07:05] These photographs representing painting as performance inspired artists for decades.

[00:07:12] And the second context identified by the art historian,

[00:07:16] Alexandra Monroe, is Japanese.

[00:07:19] In 17th century Japan, Christians were persecuted and one way that they used to identify them

[00:07:26] was to ask them to step on images of Jesus and Mary.

[00:07:30] And the procedure was called stepping on.

[00:07:34] So people who refused would be tortured and sometimes executed.

[00:07:38] So in this way, because it has references to both Eastern and Western culture,

[00:07:45] painting to be stepped on is a grapefruit, which is her recurring theme.

[00:07:51] That we'll talk about later.

[00:07:52] That's very interesting because she's 91 years old by the way.

[00:07:56] I think I don't think he said that.

[00:07:57] She was born in 1933 and she's an iconoclast

[00:08:01] because she is too Eastern in the Western world,

[00:08:05] too Western in the Eastern world.

[00:08:07] She's never where she should be and she's really very naturally rebellious.

[00:08:13] So that's a really interesting reference actually.

[00:08:16] Also, Alexandra Monroe has a really good interview,

[00:08:21] Great Women Artist podcast about Yoko Ono.

[00:08:24] If some of you, some of our listeners want to dig into Yoko Ono a little bit more,

[00:08:29] it's a really interesting episode.

[00:08:31] So just to finish off with, finish off, just cancel out the fluxus movement.

[00:08:38] But I think it's an interesting reference because she did dabble.

[00:08:43] So Miss Yuna's disgust and need to have a name for the movement.

[00:08:47] So the movement had no name by that time.

[00:08:49] The movement was inspired by the anti-establishment of daddaiism amongst other things.

[00:08:55] She rebellious as ever, as I said, was against the idea of a movement.

[00:08:59] But he still talked about this with her and he showed her the words fluxus.

[00:09:05] So it has many meanings in the dictionary and he pointed out flushing.

[00:09:09] And actually in one of her concert pieces, there's a flushing toilet.

[00:09:14] So she probably also liked the sound.

[00:09:16] She uses the flushing toilet sound quite a bit.

[00:09:19] These movements that were so outside of the box and outside of convention

[00:09:24] and didn't want to belong to the conventions of the art world,

[00:09:28] they always existed even though you have the avant-garde.

[00:09:31] They would still show in galleries, but here Miss Yuna's was creating his own gallery.

[00:09:36] Yoko Ono was creating her own space.

[00:09:38] You made the point that she is an event organizer and that's exactly what it was.

[00:09:43] So fluxus would become an international movement where authorship was irrelevant

[00:09:51] and the art object was considered a commodity.

[00:09:54] This was not again, I highlight this, it was not the first time

[00:09:58] that this was an important point for a movement.

[00:10:02] But I think in the heights of capitalism, after the 50s, it is important to go back

[00:10:10] to that notion that artistic practices are not always objects oriented and object driven.

[00:10:18] And even if they are objects, that's not the point.

[00:10:21] It's the twoing and throwing between the spectator and the object

[00:10:24] or the art object that is the important thing.

[00:10:27] So the artwork had to be ephemeral, non-traditional, non-commercial, etc.

[00:10:31] It was a radical and collective endeavor, which is really important.

[00:10:37] Certainly the most extreme of the 60s as a movement, as a collective movement.

[00:10:42] John Cage was, as ever, a great inspiration.

[00:10:46] And I think we have mentioned John Cage in every episode of the podcast.

[00:10:52] I think we're renaming this to the John Cage podcast.

[00:10:56] Who did he inspire and what major solo exhibitions are they having, essentially?

[00:11:02] But war has also been a huge feature.

[00:11:04] I mean we could reposition this as the Cage art war podcasts.

[00:11:09] If you think of Dido, Moriyama, you think of Richter, you think of Philip Guston even.

[00:11:17] I mean Marina Abramovich, different war but very, very...

[00:11:21] Different wars, yes.

[00:11:22] A lot of artists have this connection to

[00:11:26] this moment that kind of broke the 20th century.

[00:11:29] I have a quote by Yoko Ono about John Cage that is really interesting.

[00:11:34] So she says, I don't really feel close to John Cage's music.

[00:11:39] He's interested in this loud sound, you know, in a concert.

[00:11:44] I don't understand why because that distracts me from hearing the mind sound.

[00:11:50] So I think that really clarifies her relationship to music and her relationship to music as

[00:11:57] kind of the drawing of imagination, drawing in the sense of kind of like to pull and push

[00:12:03] and to move things around and rhythms and patterns.

[00:12:07] But also of the artwork as an incredibly individual experience.

[00:12:12] We talked about her work being about togetherness.

[00:12:15] But this togetherness she builds is very much built on a work on the ego, you know.

[00:12:23] I think that's the only way I can try to explain it.

[00:12:26] So anyway, her relationship with Toshi Ichinagi was turning sour.

[00:12:33] So she had... I mean, this is a pattern all throughout.

[00:12:35] She had several liaisons including with Le Monte Young because Chamber Street was

[00:12:39] actually organized with Le Monte Young.

[00:12:41] And so that's why her parents were so concerned that they kind of sent a person to escort her

[00:12:49] to Tokyo in 1962.

[00:12:51] So it was kind of her parents doing that she went back to Tokyo.

[00:12:55] But she was very glad she did because she did say that had she'd said in New York,

[00:13:00] she would have been this kind of like con madam of avant-garde and would have just

[00:13:05] repeated herself and she's not interested in that.

[00:13:08] Oh, so after the very ambivalent criticism of her big concert, she did another work

[00:13:17] which is called Cut Piece, which is also in the exhibition.

[00:13:21] And that's a really, really important work.

[00:13:24] I don't know if you want to introduce the work.

[00:13:26] Yeah.

[00:13:27] Cut Piece.

[00:13:28] For sure, yeah.

[00:13:29] So Cut Piece is a performance where she sat on stage while she allowed attendees to come

[00:13:35] up on stage and cut pieces of her clothing off with scissors.

[00:13:39] So Marina Abramovich, surely must have seen this and been inspired because it's,

[00:13:44] you know, it is that kind of performance that is, you know, a little bit dangerous.

[00:13:50] I mean, certainly very vulnerable for Yoko Ono as the performer.

[00:13:54] So she would wear her best clothes for the show as an offering to participants.

[00:14:00] And this comes from a Buddhist teaching as well that encourages doing the most embarrassing thing

[00:14:06] in order to break down your ego.

[00:14:08] And I mean, she, you know, the way that you see it at the exhibition,

[00:14:14] it's obviously a video of her having done this previously.

[00:14:19] And you see people kind of going up and clipping, you know, very modest portions of her

[00:14:25] look like some kind of Chanel suit or something like that.

[00:14:29] And taking it away.

[00:14:31] And then there's kind of a man who comes up towards Yann and just starts hacking off

[00:14:37] so that then she is much, much more exposed.

[00:14:40] And there's a lot of audience participation.

[00:14:42] And she has to cover her breasts.

[00:14:44] Yeah, yeah, exactly.

[00:14:46] And there's, you know, a lot of audience, I mean, this is all about audience participation.

[00:14:52] I mean, they are creating the art as it were.

[00:14:55] But there's a lot of disagreement in the audience about, no, don't do that.

[00:15:01] Don't, you know, kind of, you know, towing and froing.

[00:15:04] But it's that, you know, it enters into that, you know, discussion about complicity,

[00:15:10] you know, stripping a woman naked on a stage, which she's inviting you to do.

[00:15:16] In 1964, mind you, this was not in 2024.

[00:15:22] This, by the way, took place at the Contemporary American Avant-Garde Music

[00:15:27] Concert in Sound and Instructure, Yamayachi Hall Kyoto on the 20th of July and of 1964.

[00:15:36] And what is interesting as well in regards to all of her major works

[00:15:42] is that the way she explains it changes across time.

[00:15:46] And also the way it starts is not how it is perceived nowadays.

[00:15:52] So now it's considered to be a precursor of the piece Rhythm Zero of Marina Abramovich

[00:15:58] that we talked about in the first episode, whereby she had a table with lots of objects,

[00:16:03] some of them dangerous, some of them nice, some of them nourishing.

[00:16:09] And people would use those objects on her.

[00:16:11] And she ended up being threatened by a man with a revolver that was there

[00:16:15] because she had placed a revolver and a bullet on the table.

[00:16:19] And this was much later, this was in 1972, if I'm not mistaken.

[00:16:25] And so this piece was about 10 years before.

[00:16:31] And it is perceived as a very feminist humanist piece

[00:16:36] where the audience is made responsible of whatever happens to the performer.

[00:16:43] But for her, I have a quote about this piece.

[00:16:48] And she says, it was a form of giving, giving and taking.

[00:16:53] It was a kind of criticism against artists

[00:16:57] who are always giving what they want to give.

[00:17:01] I wanted people to take whatever they wanted to.

[00:17:04] So it was very important to say, you can cut wherever you want to.

[00:17:09] So that takes us to a whole other direction.

[00:17:13] It takes us again, obviously, to the sense of responsibility,

[00:17:17] but it also takes her to the notion of the artwork.

[00:17:20] So as you said in part one, and I think very rightly so,

[00:17:25] for her, it's all about abandoning her own wants and needs in a very Buddhist sense.

[00:17:31] It's all about putting the artwork in the hands of people.

[00:17:35] And I think that's why she talks about her pieces in very different ways

[00:17:40] because she's at different times in her life.

[00:17:43] And she sees them differently and they're complex.

[00:17:46] They are nuanced.

[00:17:47] They're not just one thing and one message.

[00:17:51] And so it makes for a really interesting take on whatever she was doing.

[00:17:56] It's a very generous piece.

[00:17:58] Take whatever it is you'd like.

[00:18:00] I mean, if you'd like to sit here and watch,

[00:18:03] if you'd like to participate, if you'd like to

[00:18:07] hackle people who are doing something that you think is not right.

[00:18:10] I mean, she's creating a lot of space for people to have their own agency

[00:18:16] in relation to the artwork.

[00:18:17] And it's kind of destructive.

[00:18:19] It's interesting because we will talk about this a bit later on when she comes to the UK.

[00:18:24] She comes for a sort of a symposium,

[00:18:28] conference organized by Gustav Metzger about destruction in the art world.

[00:18:34] And you can also see her kind of chipping away at the conventions of the art world

[00:18:40] and the exhibition space because exhibition, to exhibit yourself,

[00:18:45] she's actually exposing herself or letting others expose herself

[00:18:50] in her nakedness and her rawness as an embodied being.

[00:18:55] So it's quite complex actually and there's no single way to look at this piece.

[00:19:01] And that's why it's so, so interesting.

[00:19:03] So by this point, she still considered herself as an outsider.

[00:19:08] Her gender was isolating.

[00:19:10] There weren't many women out there in the Japanese avant-garde.

[00:19:13] She didn't want a conventional role of mother or wife.

[00:19:16] Her marriage came to an end.

[00:19:19] But what happened here is very surprising when,

[00:19:23] in the way we talked about Yoko Ono, which is that she was really, really in a bad way.

[00:19:30] And she tried to commit suicide and she was institutionalized.

[00:19:35] So by that time, she was very, very, very alone.

[00:19:40] And there's a whole myth around this period in her life because someone comes up

[00:19:47] when she is in an asylum, in a psychiatric ward,

[00:19:53] and a strange man, Anthony Cox, sort of maverick musician

[00:19:58] and notorious drug taker apparently, he was one of the first people to take LSD,

[00:20:04] just comes and saves her.

[00:20:07] Yeah. Wow.

[00:20:09] What a man, what a guy like Hannah Gatsby says.

[00:20:13] So he came and just kind of took care of her.

[00:20:17] He heard about her, so he came to Japan, stayed with her in Japan for quite some time.

[00:20:22] And in his honor, we can say that he was very supportive of her

[00:20:27] and helped her publish her major opus, Grapefruit,

[00:20:32] which is a book of instruction-based art, a really important book

[00:20:37] that included the instruction paintings and included lots of instructions that were

[00:20:44] near impossible, if not completely impossible to make or to realize.

[00:20:50] And she, and the name, and I wondered this for so many years,

[00:20:55] why is this book called Grapefruit?

[00:20:58] But you never forget the title, do you?

[00:21:00] I mean, it's impossible not to remember that such a book is called Grapefruit.

[00:21:05] Such poetic license is quite, I find, admirable.

[00:21:10] And actually she identified with Grapefruit because it's a fruit that is midway between

[00:21:18] an orange and a lemon.

[00:21:20] And she's also a hybrid of two cultures.

[00:21:22] So that's how she saw herself and that's why she called the book Grapefruit.

[00:21:27] The critic David Burden wrote in The Times,

[00:21:31] Grapefruit is one of the monuments of conceptual art of the early 60s.

[00:21:35] So this is nice to know at least, she has some recognition.

[00:21:40] Ono has a lyrical poetic dimension that sets her apart from the other conceptual artists.

[00:21:47] Her approach to art was only made acceptable when white men like Joseph Casute and Lawrence

[00:21:52] Vena came in and virtually did the same thing as Yoko but made them respectable and collective.

[00:21:59] Going back to what you said a little bit ago about how she was happy that she went back to Tokyo

[00:22:06] because the avant-garde scene there really opened things up for her in a way that she didn't think

[00:22:12] that she would have opened up if she was in New York.

[00:22:14] I think that's a remarkable thing to say when you really look at what happened.

[00:22:18] I mean, essentially your parents kidnapped her back to Tokyo, put her in an institution.

[00:22:24] She was kind of released by this guy through the help of this guy who ended up becoming her husband

[00:22:32] and who ended up doing some pretty despicable things later on.

[00:22:37] This optimism, maybe there is a whole library of articles where she just laments all of that

[00:22:46] but I haven't come across any of that.

[00:22:48] Not that I know of.

[00:22:50] She looks back on that period as wow, I really developed a lot as an artist

[00:22:55] and doesn't sort of dwell on the trauma of it.

[00:23:00] I forgot to mention that before her breakdown actually she was very good friends with Namjoon

[00:23:08] Paik who's a really, really important artist in the American and Japanese art scene because he

[00:23:14] developed conceptual work through technology, so through the use of televisions and lots of

[00:23:20] radios and transmission, broadcasting, all of it.

[00:23:25] And so she participated as well in experimental activities with the group Ongaku

[00:23:31] and Namjoon Paik keeping a link with Fluxus.

[00:23:37] She also made this artwork called I think pieces of the future where she would break milk bottles

[00:23:48] because by the time people were delivered milk bottles every day in the morning and there's

[00:23:53] shards of milk bottles with the dates, future dates.

[00:23:57] And she would sell them, she sold them somewhere in a festival or something in Japan

[00:24:03] and the only person who bought a piece for 500 yen was Namjoon Paik.

[00:24:07] So she was always in, I think she had the recognition and I think she was an artist,

[00:24:13] artist basically by this point because she was a woman.

[00:24:17] You know there's no other explanation because Namjoon Paik went on to have a brilliant career,

[00:24:22] you know super Uber recognized.

[00:24:24] So yes as you said going back to this mysterious Anthony Cox, a horrible thing that happened

[00:24:31] was that she had a child eventually with him, Kiyoko.

[00:24:35] So after things go sour which of course they would eventually do because Cox had a very

[00:24:42] kind of erratic kind of life and habits, drug habits.

[00:24:48] You know they moved to New York with Kiyoko so Kiyoko's born in Japan,

[00:24:52] they moved to New York with her and eventually when they separate Anthony Cox takes Kiyoko,

[00:24:59] he joins a cult and he forbids Yoko Ono to have access to her for many, many, many decades.

[00:25:07] I actually hadn't realized that she had had a kid before the one she had with John Lennon,

[00:25:13] Sean you know and seeing some of the art that she made in Kiyoko's honor,

[00:25:19] I mean it's just really heartbreaking and it looks like after she got together with John Lennon

[00:25:26] they tried to see the daughter and tried to, but then you know she just kind of went off into this

[00:25:36] cult and I think they were there for like 10 years and then Anthony Cox and Kiyoko left that

[00:25:41] cult but they were still in some kind of really fundamentalist Christian sect.

[00:25:48] So she didn't see her again until the 90s.

[00:25:50] I mean, I just can't imagine how painful that must have been.

[00:25:57] And isolating because who can understand and who could not blame the mother in that period

[00:26:05] for something like that? She could not confide in anyone because she would always be seen as a

[00:26:10] bad mother even now. Can you imagine then you know an artist, an independent woman who was

[00:26:16] still making her art and who was still successful in traveling, who had a child somewhere and wasn't

[00:26:22] like crying her eyes out and frantically trying to kidnap her from the father you know. And at the

[00:26:32] time you didn't have the resources you have now you know and she also had the child in Japan,

[00:26:37] she was a foreigner so she had no rights in the United States. Everything was against her

[00:26:42] to get her daughter back but who would have wanted to understand that? I don't think a lot of people

[00:26:48] would have been very understanding. Anyway, so she reenacted a lot of her works in New York,

[00:26:53] so cut piece, morning piece, so the bottle shards. She also sold them in I think New York and

[00:27:01] the top of some building and she did also do back piece as well where two performers take

[00:27:09] off their shoes, climb into a burlap bag where they take off their clothes and move around

[00:27:15] which is also a work that is in the exhibition. It is yeah. So did you do bagpice while you were

[00:27:23] there? Well it was so cute, it was cute alert. When I got there I so I was with my parents

[00:27:35] so it was my birthday and I had asked that my parents would come with us. That was my

[00:27:42] birthday request because my mum has mobility issues, she had a knee operation and so we booked

[00:27:48] taxis to go to come back but I really wanted them to be there with me and my three boys

[00:27:54] unfortunately my daughter couldn't come because she was working so the whole family

[00:27:57] was there except for Constança which was you know such a pity but anyway. She had grapefruit,

[00:28:03] I gave her grapefruit when she was a teenager and she's held it, she's held on to it since

[00:28:09] even when I was preparing this she held on, she held on to it. So that was really cute but I

[00:28:17] was really worried about my mum and so I carried this foldable chair in the exhibition space,

[00:28:23] I really worried and so I followed them, I didn't read any texts, I just followed them

[00:28:30] and you know spend time where they would spend time and they were just really interested looking at

[00:28:35] the staff and looking at the paintings that you have this that noise of the nailed painting

[00:28:41] where you know there's always someone like banging you know on a nail

[00:28:46] and so there's it's really noisy, it's really chaotic and we're going to the third room

[00:28:51] where you have back piece number 31 and I see two kids performing it and lots of people around it

[00:29:01] just with the biggest smile on their faces they look like caterpillars, it was such a cute thing so

[00:29:08] my parents look at that and then there's cut piece right next to it and then I got completely

[00:29:13] distracted by the kids obviously I stayed for quite a while then my children came over

[00:29:19] we were all like looking at each other going like oh this is so nice and so beautiful in terms of sculpture

[00:29:26] and performance and dance was such a mesmerizing thing to look at and also ideal for Yoko Ono, there's no

[00:29:34] um it was just spontaneity, there was no know-how or or attempt to be beautiful or to do some kind

[00:29:44] of dance moves it was just an experiment and it was just an experience and then I thought oh my parents,

[00:29:50] my mom probably needs to sit down and I see them and they were just mesmerized by cut piece

[00:29:58] they were looking at it and they just looked at me and they were like oh my gosh I mean this is

[00:30:03] so incredible when did she do this so we started talking about it so it was really beautiful

[00:30:10] it was a really beautiful experience of the exhibition to go with your whole family

[00:30:15] my parents don't really read English that well so I decided not to read the text and just

[00:30:21] be there for them but I would completely lose track of them because I got distracted by the

[00:30:27] works and I just had this experience of being letting myself be attracted to whatever was calling

[00:30:32] me and then suddenly thinking oh my mom and just running off and giving her the chair she never

[00:30:39] used the chair not even once she had the biggest smile on her face my parents were delighted they

[00:30:46] were so happy I hadn't seen a smile on her face like that for a very long time outside of the

[00:30:53] family and you know our own stuff here at home she was so happy my dad was so happy

[00:30:59] they were just having the time of their lives was so fantastic that's so nice what a great

[00:31:05] birthday gift I mean is there a better one yeah especially when you get to the end of the

[00:31:09] exhibition but we'll talk about that later oh gosh yeah boy that's a good yeah definitely

[00:31:14] good one to go with your mom for sure you know so when I went to the exhibition it was late

[00:31:20] so it was after work I didn't have a ton of time and it's huge so I was kind of a little bit

[00:31:26] worried about seeing as much as I could see and when I got to bag piece it was just the

[00:31:32] bags on the floor and then there were signs around and I was like what what is this about

[00:31:38] and then this woman just kind of got there hopped in and was doing very yoko owner like kind of you

[00:31:45] know just sort of you know just throwing shapes you know and then she did a little bit of rolling

[00:31:52] around and it was so cool I mean it's how could you not watch that you know I mean how could

[00:31:57] that not be anything other than captivating and it was really cool but I mean what I loved about it

[00:32:03] though was you know she wanted people to experience a world without race or gender or ethnicity and

[00:32:11] allow people to feel what that would be like to not have that be the first thing that you perceive

[00:32:19] about about you and there's some great YouTube videos where she's performing bag piece while the

[00:32:29] plastic ono band is playing so you see like John Lennon yes and the band they're on stage

[00:32:35] and then she you watch her just like you know kind of take your shoes off and then go to the front

[00:32:41] kind of somewhere in front of the amps and just get in the bag and just start doing her

[00:32:48] thing you know and I just think like what must that have been like for the audience it's like

[00:32:55] for a lot of people they're there because John Lennon is there playing the guitar and singing

[00:32:59] is that you know for sure yes and then she's just going off on this bag piece you know kind

[00:33:05] of tangent yeah just google yoko owner on youtube and you find the most incredible things and I

[00:33:12] have to say I'm really I'm in awe of her because being in that space where you know that people

[00:33:21] are coming to see your husband to see the celebrity the Justin Bieber of the moment yeah and you're

[00:33:29] bringing in the most awkward bizarre actions and happenings into it and you know that people

[00:33:38] are criticizing you by then people probably also have been there for her but not with good sentiment

[00:33:45] yeah and and also lots of fans I think as she has an interview on youtube with the singer of the

[00:33:51] b52s who imitates the little screams that yoko ono does in such a perfect way that yoko was like

[00:33:58] oh my god you're good that's exactly it and the b52s they loved yoko ono's music of course

[00:34:05] she had fans but again artists performance and I admire maybe because I identify with that a little

[00:34:13] bit this idea of not wanting to belong of not wanting to fit in of wanting to carve your own

[00:34:22] space in the name of something that you really believe in in the name of a form of language and

[00:34:29] a form of existence that in her mind would end all the differences while celebrating uniqueness

[00:34:38] the uniqueness she'd never you know denied her own Japanese culture or even western culture

[00:34:44] she embraced all forms of language that were given to her and that were familiar to her

[00:34:51] and carving that space for yourself in the place where you're not wanted yeah my oh my

[00:34:58] isn't that incredible yeah that is super impressive I mean the the grip brings me to tears totally

[00:35:05] totally yeah I mean it's so impressive I mean whatever you think of her work yeah whatever

[00:35:10] you think of her visual art whatever you think of her music you know and she did a lot of

[00:35:16] concessions you know she met uh John Lennon halfway she did lots of pop music which was not her thing

[00:35:23] you know and she is just in order to bring her art to the people there's an interview on YouTube I

[00:35:30] don't know who the interviewer was an American interviewer well she brought back peace a bag

[00:35:37] for herself a bag for him and I had a feeling that they had agreed that he would put himself in

[00:35:44] the bag and she would climb into the bag as well and do the interview like that and she tells him

[00:35:50] so are you not gonna use your bag and he says no no I would rather not no thank you very much

[00:35:55] I'm very comfortable as I am like really aggressive you're passive aggressive you know she's trying

[00:36:02] she keeps trying to bring her work to a sort of celebrity platform which is kind of incredible

[00:36:10] yeah so shall we talk about London because that's a big part of her life yeah definitely

[00:36:16] let's go there so in 1966 she traveled to London to participate in that art symposium I mentioned

[00:36:23] organized by the great artist Gustav Metzger so she was invited to do an exhibition as well

[00:36:30] at New Indica Gallery which was set up by John Dunbar who was married to Marian Faithful so it

[00:36:36] was kind of a big deal the New Indica Gallery was a sort of a makeshift space that connected

[00:36:43] to music as well she does seem to gravitate to popular culture and music anyway so she was right

[00:36:50] at the center of Swinging London and I haven't said this expression so many so many years I mean

[00:36:57] it's Swinging London was a thing like can you believe it now yeah and Austin Powers baby

[00:37:06] so finally we get to John Lennon this is where she met him

[00:37:10] so of course there's a lot of urban myths around this lots of stories lots of anecdotes told about

[00:37:17] this so apparently I read in the biography that John Lennon said and I quote Dunbar told me about

[00:37:26] this Japanese girl from New York who was going to be in the bag doing this event or happening

[00:37:32] and I thought hmm sex and the quote who wouldn't think of the girl in the bag and think sex you know

[00:37:42] listen it was it was there it was there for the taking so he goes to the gallery before it happens

[00:37:49] so the gallery was doing his job well you know he was inviting the celebrities you know he could

[00:37:54] potentially buy the work and bring other people and so Ono was super busy preparing the

[00:38:00] exhibition she did not want to talk to anyone so so she has one of so the pieces she showed at

[00:38:07] New Indicator Gallery are in the big big room where you have the chest the white the white chest

[00:38:15] and you have the apple on the sorts of transparent plexiglass plinso apparently he bit

[00:38:22] into the apple and she found him arrogant it was at their meeting was like in I believe

[00:38:30] 15 minutes like they went to ups and downs and controversy and kind of like finally

[00:38:37] finding a common grounds he's like I want sex and she's like you're arrogant and then

[00:38:43] then it snowballs from there somehow it snowballs from there so there was this other work in the

[00:38:50] exhibition painting to hammer which is in the exhibition at the Tate as well very audibly so

[00:38:56] um no painting to hammer a nail sorry and so he wanted to do it which made her reluctant as

[00:39:03] she wanted the works to be pristine for the opening so she answered okay you can do it for

[00:39:09] five shillings and he replied I will give you an imaginary five shillings and hammer and an

[00:39:15] imaginary nail and for her that is when they actually really met then he went up the ladder

[00:39:23] which is another work that I really really love I think it's one of my favorites

[00:39:26] so there's a ladder you go up the ladder and then there's from the ceiling hangs

[00:39:33] a magnifying glass that you use to read a word that is in the smallest print possible hanging

[00:39:42] from a painting on a painting hanging from the ceiling that just says the word yes

[00:39:48] and I heard I read or heard of another story that when he saw that he got it and he thought wow

[00:39:56] this is incredible because he was a bit afraid of like going up the ladder and just having some

[00:40:01] sort of you know aggressive thing you know shouted at him through the magnifying glass

[00:40:07] and he just found it really beautiful and he really loved it so apparently that's how

[00:40:13] they met and she claims that she had no idea who he was see I don't buy that for a moment

[00:40:21] and I've seen a lot of interviews where she's like no honestly no I had no idea I met Paul before

[00:40:27] but I had no idea who John Lennon was but I just don't believe you could have been

[00:40:32] in a Beatles saturated 60s culture and not known who he was I mean I love her to pieces

[00:40:39] I'm not buying this bit but the the yes piece and her pieces in general again very optimistic in a

[00:40:48] very pessimistic time I mean there's racial strife going on there's a war going on and a lot of the

[00:40:55] art happening at the moment was making an explicit mark on one of those themes you know and is

[00:41:04] grappling with it and I mean so I watched the Steve Martin documentary on Apple oh yeah it's really good

[00:41:12] I really enjoyed it and and it's interesting because they talk about that that's what he was doing

[00:41:17] with his comedy at the time I mean so much you think of like George Carlin Richard Pryor I mean

[00:41:25] these guys right yeah making political statements with their art very explicitly very funnily

[00:41:32] you know I mean really really humorously just just as an aside was it Richard Pryor because I

[00:41:38] watched it as well you had that joke saying like you know I don't want to be white at the

[00:41:44] moment because I mean all white people are going to the moon and I just want them to go all of them

[00:41:49] to the moon just leave us to yeah that was him that was him yeah it was so funny I

[00:41:57] I enjoy what Steve Martin was doing but some political jokes were funny

[00:42:02] no I mean yeah and all of that political stuff and this was really funny as well I mean Richard

[00:42:07] Pryor just you know side splitting but but I mean I liked that he you know he was the way he

[00:42:14] talked about his art and what he wanted to do was was not sort of joke punchline so you have

[00:42:21] this tension where the joke is happening and that tension gets released with the punchline

[00:42:26] and then everybody laughs he wanted tension the whole way out he wanted people he wanted to take

[00:42:32] out the punchline that's what he said he wanted to just abolish the punchline and you know contain

[00:42:40] the awkwardness yeah yeah totally and he you know he was doing really silly stuff he wanted it

[00:42:46] to feel like you know you're hanging out with your mates and you're just laughing for no particular

[00:42:52] reason you're just being silly and laughing and if you've seen any of his stuff well then crazy guy

[00:42:57] you know I mean that is exactly I mean Ono's work was political you know but she set out to be more

[00:43:04] joyful and optimistic and I think that yes piece is a perfect demonstration of that because it

[00:43:10] could have been very easily something about racial tension or and it could have been like that's not

[00:43:18] that that's invalid that's a very valid thing to be producing art around but yeah you're saying

[00:43:26] basically that it's not directly political in the message but I think it is political and I was

[00:43:33] thinking about Steve Martin as well that you mentioned so rightfully because he was being

[00:43:40] political as well in his actions in the way he was deconstructing that very dusty structure of laughter

[00:43:52] through TV because he was the first stand-up comedian he was doing it live no one was doing that

[00:43:58] and he was really kind of deconstructing the space for laughter when laughter would come up

[00:44:04] and kind of building into the mind of the viewer who had to decide whether that was funny or not

[00:44:11] because he was presented as a comedian and then giving you know the power to the audience as well

[00:44:19] that's such a good comparison because Yoko is doing the same because saying yes and I heard someone

[00:44:25] say that uh I think it was Sarah Marshall describing Yoko Ono's work as conceptual self-help

[00:44:35] and she said it in a nice way not like a criticism and the yes thing is kind of preempts this whole

[00:44:43] self-help movement of like say yes to everything in your life you know be affirmative but actually

[00:44:50] it resonates in a lean in it resonates in a different way because yes yes to what yes to going

[00:44:59] into war yes to you know being in the military yes to going out there and destroy the structure

[00:45:07] and showing it to the man yes to what what are you saying yes to and that is incredibly political

[00:45:14] you know without explicitly delivering a message you think of how different that would be if you

[00:45:19] climbed up there and it was no you know I mean which could also be no to war it could be a positive no

[00:45:27] no to war no to the yeah you know going and killing people no to racial injustice all that kind of

[00:45:33] stuff but but she chose yes which is a you know I think there's a lot of artists at the time

[00:45:40] that probably would have been like no we have to be no you know we have to lay down the law here

[00:45:46] but yeah I agree I think I think it is just such a simple thing but really you know complex and

[00:45:52] deep in its simplicity so anyway so John Lennon and Yoko Ono become an item she pursued him

[00:46:00] quite aggressively apparently uh but at the same time you know he took her to a studio

[00:46:06] opened the sofa bed and she said no not having it not having sex with you this way I'm not a

[00:46:10] groupie you know so she established the terms of the relationship as she was pursuing him

[00:46:16] pursuing him you know in a very Yoko Ono style and it was a brutal I have to say this to Cynthia

[00:46:23] Lennon it was brutal because he was married to Cynthia Lennon he had lived a super secluded life

[00:46:29] he was this kind of like grown child adored by everyone in the whole world and he just

[00:46:37] decided that you know he would spend time with Yoko Ono in his own home until Cynthia Lennon

[00:46:44] got back home because she had offered her I think a trip to Greece her and her son Julian

[00:46:51] and when she arrived they were there in their nightgowns sitting on the floor just talking

[00:46:57] about art and rough she just yeah and it was just the feta compoli you know there was nothing

[00:47:02] to say and he'd really behave like a big baby yeah yeah no that's awful I can imagine how how

[00:47:09] miserable that must have been for her and just cruel I mean that's a really cruel way to end

[00:47:15] a marriage that's deeply disrespectful but I mean I don't know if he was a secluded child I mean I

[00:47:20] know that he was a famous person by that point and had legions of fans that would have done

[00:47:26] anything for him and he could get anything he wanted but I mean he was born during the war

[00:47:31] and grew up with rationing his parents split his dad tried to kidnap him before he abandoned him

[00:47:37] altogether then he was raised by his aunt because his mom was mentally ill even though she continued

[00:47:44] to be like a big influence in his life she bought him his first guitar it's worse than that his aunt

[00:47:50] actually thought that he should have been her child and lied to his mom who lived not very far

[00:47:56] away from them lied to him saying that his mom did not want to see him and manipulated things into

[00:48:03] keeping him with her while being really arrogant to him and being really really abusive so I mean he

[00:48:12] had a horrible childhood yeah I mean that is really dark and then you know he had this he had

[00:48:17] this connection with his mom and then she was hit by a car and died when he was 17 I mean

[00:48:23] so he I mean he had you know this very famous lifestyle of you know the whole world of yes

[00:48:31] as it were but I mean he certainly spent some time in the school of hard knocks and I think

[00:48:37] you know there's certainly a loneliness that you can imagine from Yoko Ono in the coldness

[00:48:43] of her family the loneliness he must have felt by both parents not being available and growing up

[00:48:50] in this really weird condition with his with his aunt yeah I mean what I mean by being secluded is that

[00:48:58] he was in the rarefied air of celebrity so he could do whatever he wanted he was you know

[00:49:06] surrounded by yes people and as typically in you know the the men of the who were grown-ups

[00:49:13] in the 60s and the 70s he didn't address his personal trauma and he ended up doing the

[00:49:19] same thing that was done to him to Julian with apparently a big support from Yoko Ono which

[00:49:26] Mei-Peng talks about don't know if that's true or not doesn't really matter but so what I mean to say

[00:49:32] is that he had agency and I'm not against you know and I am actually not not only I'm

[00:49:38] I'm not against I'm absolutely forgiving John Lennon full agency because he was a powerful man

[00:49:43] but I think he also was in a situation where everything was available to him

[00:49:49] he could do anything he wanted I don't know what you think about this but I think that

[00:49:55] this celebrity thing that she embarked on was very dangerous she did her best with it

[00:50:02] dangerous in what sense I'm gonna give you an example so Arthur my 23 year old son went back

[00:50:08] to the exhibition with a friend I asked him so how did you experience the exhibition again and he

[00:50:13] said well you know yeah I mean my friend didn't really love it but we kept thinking about this

[00:50:20] bed thing they did with Yoko Ono and John Lennon and we were like who do they think they are

[00:50:26] I don't care that they're in bed together why why are we looking at them naked I mean it makes

[00:50:31] absolutely no sense and so for him this made no sense it was even a bit distasteful it didn't mean

[00:50:39] anything and it didn't change anything like you know he was like these celebrities who think they can

[00:50:45] change the world just because they say something or they have a message of some kind and and

[00:50:52] notoriously you can think of Gal Gadot with Imagine the song during the pandemic which was such a

[00:50:59] disaster so I can see how you would look at it I mean when I was a kid and I saw those you know

[00:51:09] Imagine peace and kind of the posters they put up I loved it I felt really really moved by it I

[00:51:18] mean at the time as a teenager you know kind of starting to feel some seeds of social justice

[00:51:27] start to bloom and it felt like a very simple idea that I felt was a very powerful one the fact that

[00:51:34] someone so famous was saying it and someone that you know I admired so much you know in him I wasn't

[00:51:41] as close to to her work then felt important and felt really inspiring as a kid I mean I do see

[00:51:52] that it is a very simple message but that's intentionally so you know I mean it's like

[00:51:58] there you know if you go back to what she's about which is the power of the imagination

[00:52:06] to create art and create reality in your own mind that's the most powerful thing that you can

[00:52:13] get people to do is Imagine peace and I mean granted I don't know the celebrity part of

[00:52:20] it I can see why Arta would feel that way I have a complicated relationship with celebrities who

[00:52:26] become activists and start to say things about you know international relations or the way things

[00:52:33] should be because sometimes they get it really wrong and you know they don't know really what

[00:52:38] they're talking about but at the same time you want them to leverage that extraordinary

[00:52:44] power that they have for something good they're human beings and they can have opinions about

[00:52:49] the world as they so choose but it is a complicated thing when it is mixed with celebrity and when

[00:52:56] it's mixed with kind of branding as it would be now yes which was not the case for them I mean

[00:53:05] if you watch the Maypeng documentary Yoko Ono was the person managing everything and the footage

[00:53:12] you see is really them but mostly her dealing with requests press requests um appear public

[00:53:22] appearances exhibitions pieces concerts and John Lennon we have to say this was a heroin addict

[00:53:30] by the time so was she of course obviously at the time when after he was killed everyone

[00:53:39] claimed that she was the heroin addict but he has he had a big addiction at the time so they were

[00:53:46] living a very reckless life and you can see and that's the if you turn the Amy Pag documentary

[00:53:53] on its head what happens is that Yoko Ono was completely as usual committed to art

[00:54:02] completely stifled by the relationship because she had to take care of him as well

[00:54:06] and so at a certain point she tells Maypeng listen can you please have an affair with him

[00:54:11] I can see he's unstable you're nice she was 19 I mean there was so many things wrong we don't

[00:54:17] love this but anyway spend some time I can see he likes you as if she was asking someone to

[00:54:24] to do something in order to fix him because he was not doing well and she had stuff to do

[00:54:29] she wanted to do her art it's for her it's always about her art and of course I think

[00:54:35] us commoners probably do not understand that kind of state of mind and of course if you talk to

[00:54:40] Maypeng this was completely irrational nonsensical why would a wife ask with someone to take care of

[00:54:50] of her husband but she was not a wife she didn't see herself as a wife she saw an artistic

[00:54:55] partnership that wasn't working and I think that's basically what was happening then

[00:55:01] and she really wanted to use that platform and she used it to the best of her ability and to be honest

[00:55:07] the you can see in the exhibition so that big space of the exhibition which is really really nice

[00:55:14] so chaotic so you have the pieces she did when she was in London the whole New Indica exhibition

[00:55:21] with a magnificent room with half furniture you know well everything cut in half

[00:55:27] and she was talking about this possession you know by because she was getting a divorce she also

[00:55:33] did not have a child with her I think it's a lot about that and she asked John Lennon to actually

[00:55:38] finance the the piece and he said no so they were having that kind of towing and throwing that

[00:55:44] interesting relationship and lots of the works of the exhibition are there they're super interesting

[00:55:49] and then you have a whole space with just tables with the chess piece which is basically

[00:55:55] a chess board and all the pieces are white and you can only play until you remember

[00:56:01] all the moves of the game and if and if you forget and if you can't retrace all your steps

[00:56:07] then you've lost the game brings it back to your point about Steve Martin and you know kind of

[00:56:12] taking away the punchline so the the chess board was also white so the pieces are white and

[00:56:18] the chess board is also completely white on a white table in white chairs and I think in

[00:56:22] addition she was she was talking about taking away opposition because if you unless you really remember

[00:56:30] all of your moves and pieces which is impossible like I don't know who could do that I don't play

[00:56:37] chess it's I think you can but the thing is and that takes us back to her upbringing

[00:56:44] the high achieving Yoko Ono is like you need to be high achieving as well I think there's a bit

[00:56:50] of that in the piece which I love really yeah but it also takes away the opposition I mean there's less

[00:56:57] opposition yes the competition yeah nothing nothing is there or very little is there to facilitate you

[00:57:04] actually strategizing against someone it's incredibly difficult to do when those when the

[00:57:10] when the black and white is taken away which is quite simple and powerful and it's a Buddhist

[00:57:14] thing yeah yeah yeah it's a Buddhist thing like do your best be wholeheartedly there in mind and body

[00:57:22] be in the moment be present and do it to the best of your abilities Yoko and Arta love chess I mean

[00:57:30] Arta loves chess I love chess as well but I didn't play because I was running around my mom with

[00:57:35] folding chair but so they were playing and then my parents were like looking at them

[00:57:40] and it was such a nice experience that exhibition it was really really nice and then my mom loved the

[00:57:48] piece the final one so the two final pieces after the 60s works in New Indica gallery you have this

[00:57:55] big room which was completely white as well with a boat and you can I think only 15 people

[00:58:05] can be in there did you experience it my mom went straight in there yeah so it's yeah and the boat is

[00:58:10] white as well and it's kind of like a row boat it's a very simple row boat kind of boat and everything's

[00:58:17] white and you can have um there's blue markers for people just to write whatever they'd like to

[00:58:24] so there's writing all over the boat so that it's almost completely blue or it was almost

[00:58:29] completely blue when I was there and then kind of up to the room on the floor and on the walls

[00:58:36] up to handwriting height is words images lots of them overlapping to create

[00:58:46] you know different words and images really cool I mean you know it's like a a giant coloring

[00:58:52] book for anybody and everybody to come in and color in what they wish but also with a very clear

[00:58:59] point about the refugee crisis you're basically drowning in a sea of words but before that you

[00:59:06] have the video fly which she made with the help of Maypeng and John Lennon and a whole team

[00:59:16] and I decided to go into that room with my 14 year old son about the technical caption

[00:59:23] says flies provided by New York City what really happened is that Maypeng had to actually

[00:59:30] get flies in the middle of winter so that's one of the things she was asked to do I mean they were

[00:59:36] in a sort of a another stratosphere I think and so apparently I think your co-owner wanted

[00:59:44] to be the person to do that but they ended up hiring a porn star so to lie down completely naked

[00:59:53] while the camera follows a fly just being a fly on your body and at a certain point the fly

[01:00:02] decides to go very slowly but surely onto the pubic hair of the woman and then straight into like

[01:00:13] on the lips you know nearing the vulva so and I was there with my son and I just kind of thought

[01:00:22] I'm gonna hold this moment as much as I can and we're gonna watch this together and we watch

[01:00:28] this together I mean he's seen other stuff I mean obviously my kids haven't been through a lot

[01:00:34] but he was just like there you know watching this thing

[01:00:37] and just kind of calmly taking it in we didn't talk about it because of course I was running

[01:00:42] after my mom each time I experienced any of the works and my mom said no I don't need a chair

[01:00:48] why would you ask me that and I said okay then I didn't see this one I think this is one I'll make

[01:00:55] time for when I go back well how did you find it what did you walk away with um I find it

[01:01:02] the most intriguing one because you don't know exactly I'm sure there's a very specific purpose

[01:01:08] for the work but I'm not too curious it's not one of those where I want to know what it's about

[01:01:15] it's just so strange to suddenly fixate on the fly on a human body and turn things around

[01:01:23] and see things from the perspective of the fly the film I saw was the bottoms film which is

[01:01:30] one that I think she did with Anthony Cox when she was with Anthony Cox yes and so it's comprised of

[01:01:36] close-up views of people's bottoms as they're walking so you know she kind of when you're

[01:01:43] looking at it you can't even a very famous bottoms by the way yeah yeah exactly you you

[01:01:50] can't even necessarily tell if they're male or female all the time I mean most of the time

[01:01:56] you can yes I like that and yeah and her whole point was like yeah everybody has a bum you know

[01:02:03] famous people not famous people and I kind of like that about you know that irreverence because I

[01:02:10] don't think she gets enough credit for her irreverence you know she no and her humor exactly

[01:02:16] and she gosh I was where was I reading that might have been in the New Yorker article I read

[01:02:22] where she advertised a fake exhibition at MoMA and she was like Yoko Ono is going to be at MoMA

[01:02:31] and she had these advertisements made and instead of Museum of Contemporary Art it said Museum of

[01:02:39] Contemporary Farts and you know I mean and so all these people were showing up at MoMA and MoMA

[01:02:45] apparently had the advertisement there saying you know what she's putting you on she's not here and

[01:02:52] I mean I just like well done you know I mean you know that is that's really pushing you know you

[01:03:00] talked about that earlier about how she really pushed back on the structures of the art world

[01:03:05] itself it's like you couldn't get more any blatant kind of thumb in the eye of the art

[01:03:11] world than that it's really good yeah and the the bottoms is really funny because usually you say

[01:03:19] we all have the same blood running in our veins we're all the same and she goes like we'll have

[01:03:24] bottoms guys yeah yeah we all have thumbs in our chest and souls in our bodies now she's like

[01:03:32] we all have a butt and also I like the fact that it's that place in your body that is sexual

[01:03:40] that you can use at your own will in your sexual relationships be it heterosexual

[01:03:47] you know or homosexual and it is genderless to her genderless point I think we can address also

[01:03:55] the fact that nowadays it's very hard to say look beyond race look beyond gender we are

[01:04:02] in a moment where we're reckoning with gender with race with cultural differences with

[01:04:08] appropriation I would love to know what younger generations who are fighting a lot for their

[01:04:16] bodies to be recognized as they see themselves and identify themselves as or as they are seen by

[01:04:24] you know culture society history etc how they would feel about this idea of being in a bag

[01:04:32] trying to exist in a sort of world where none of that exists because is the end point of talking

[01:04:40] about identity going beyond identity and is that what she was thinking or is the point not really

[01:04:47] addressing identity in her work and I think that's a fair question and it's a question that

[01:04:52] probably a lot of you know trans activists you know black activists could could ask

[01:04:58] because I mean that whole color blind thing we were there for a while and we thought that was

[01:05:03] the way to think about it and it's not it is not I don't see color yeah problematic and not true

[01:05:12] so tell me about your experience of the rest of the exhibition there's two very strong pieces at

[01:05:16] the end of the exhibition my mommy is beautiful yeah it's it's a bit like the wish trees so people

[01:05:22] can write notes to their mother about their mother and put them on the wall and they were just

[01:05:28] tons of notes I mean I don't know what they're gonna do are they gonna take them down so that it's

[01:05:34] they'll have to take them down at some point because if this goes on until September this whole

[01:05:39] room will be full of messages thinking about her mom and how her mom was like you're so lucky to

[01:05:47] have a beautiful mother you know I think that that you know kind of adds an interesting dimension

[01:05:53] to it I think you know how most people took it and most of the messages that I read were you know

[01:06:01] kind of my mom is the best and I love her and this is how she makes me feel and I did see one that was

[01:06:07] like my mom is an enemy and you need to keep your enemies close so there's this famous clip

[01:06:13] of Fred Rogers when he's getting I think it's an Emmy award and he's on stage he had this

[01:06:20] really famous kids TV program for years and years and years Mr. Rogers neighborhood he got up on stage

[01:06:28] and he was like actually what I want everyone to do right now is to take a moment to think of someone

[01:06:35] who's made a real difference in their lives and help them get to where they are right now

[01:06:41] in this seat in this auditorium you can feel it when you watch that clip the room it changes

[01:06:48] and the feeling in the room changes because people are all focusing their minds on something

[01:06:55] that they are grateful for and towards someone that they to whom they are grateful and I think

[01:07:01] that there's a bit of that in this room. Yeah I think Bartholomew my 18 year old son said that he

[01:07:08] hurt someone say well this is stupid because not everyone has a mother and he said well that's

[01:07:13] stupid because even if you don't have a mom you know you kind of have a relationship with someone

[01:07:21] who's akin to a mother or who's akin to a carer and you can think about carers and you can think

[01:07:27] about the fact that you don't have a mom you might have two dads and they're mothering you you

[01:07:34] know what is mothering and yeah my father's mom passed away when he was 23 years old and he

[01:07:40] loved her to pieces he had a great relationship with her and so my kids told me because I got there

[01:07:46] later than everyone else my dad wrote something and pinned it to the wall in Portuguese and then

[01:07:52] I wrote something about my own mom so I had to think about my relationship with my mother

[01:07:58] he was there so happy you know and I found something that made me really really comfortable

[01:08:04] so I felt really at peace so yeah so that's the we we got to the end of the exhibition

[01:08:09] believe it or not we thought we never would yeah it's a biggie it's a biggie but you're right in

[01:08:16] terms of my mommy is beautiful you're right not everybody does have a mother that is true

[01:08:21] and I mean there's no yeah that isn't a common denominator necessarily everybody is born

[01:08:28] through a uterus but not necessarily uh is a mother does that make her of her own time

[01:08:36] or is she trying to say something about de-gendering mothering as well again you know it's up to you

[01:08:42] to decide I have to say I'm coming I'm coming away with a very different understanding of Yoko Ono

[01:08:49] than I had going in I mean when me too when I went in as I said last time you know I didn't

[01:08:57] I didn't really get her art I didn't really you know there was the whole hangover of the

[01:09:02] Beatles all that kind of stuff I didn't really I didn't really appreciate what she was trying to do

[01:09:10] or the really revolutionary way she was trying to do it you know being the person that she is and

[01:09:17] in the time that she's lived but I I'm coming away with yeah just a lot of admiration and respect

[01:09:24] for what she has done as an artist yeah me too me too and she's still going she's 91 and she's

[01:09:33] still going I mean god love her I want to be just like that my goodness I mean she's still wearing

[01:09:40] her funky sunglasses and her life before you kind of think that what a resilient human being she is

[01:09:47] you know imperfect being she's not a perfect human neither are we you know far from it indeed speak for

[01:09:55] yourself come on let's wrap it up yeah I mean I'll just say there's a huge portion of her life obviously

[01:10:01] that we have not covered in as much detail as we have kind of the beginning of her life until

[01:10:06] she got together with Lenin but there's loads of available resources online so do go check it out

[01:10:13] and do check out this exhibition if you can it's really really worth it our next episode is going

[01:10:19] to focus on Aria Dean's exhibition at the ICA so if you have time go and see it because that's

[01:10:27] going to be our next episode but yeah so thanks so much everybody for listening take care and

[01:10:32] have a great week and don't forget we visit exhibitions so that you have to so go out there

[01:10:38] and visit some shows take care all right bye Joanna bye Emily